Empire Avenue Spam v Empire Avenue Engagement- Who Wins?
I don’t believe spamming on Empire Avenue will work. There always will be spammers. People who spend all their time desperately trying to accumulate ‘status’ gaining followers on Twitter, friends on Facebook and now shareholders on Empire Avenue.
Spamming doesn’t work, unless you’re looking for superficial results.
More so than any other platform, spam doesn’t work on Empire Avenue. People don’t like spammers and word spreads fast if you’re a dreaded spammer, because there are more shared spaces. When someone signs up to Empire Avenue, they provide details of their key social media platforms and people follow them on multiple sites. Therefore, it’s far easier to damage ones personal brand, across all your online activity, as a result of being seen as a spammer. And if that’s enough, there may well be spammer directories evolving soon.
And yes, although spamming may seem to get quick results, the results are superficial. You may increase the number of followers you have on Twitter or the share price you have on Empire Avenue, but it simply stops there. You get far more out of the relationships by connecting meaningfully with others.
How many of us see those with large twitter followers but don’t see them having many @ conversations. Have they spammed their way to accumulate followers?
“People who cannot grow want to leap: they want short cuts to fame, fortune, and happiness.” – Eric Hoffer
People like to talk, they like to connect and they like to see how working relationships can foster, but when you’re spamming, walking into a chat room and shouting “buy my shares” you may not realise it but you’re sending out a message which says “I’m the only one important here and I don’t really care about you unless you can benefit me.”
I’m not someone who normally gets wound up, I just ignore them, but now it’s a bit different because its a shared space. And whatsmore I’ve agreed (and am honoured) to be a moderator, so need to think a little more about the significance of spam and the right culture.
As a result of the recent surge in people joining the site, naturally resolving spam has proved to be a necessary evil. Moderators have the capacity to boot others off, if they are getting too shirty. They close down chat rooms if they are beyond repair, and more importantly help set the positive culture. However the desire is one to serve, and as always, for it to work, it’s the community that positively takes responsibility for the culture itself. Love this post from the (e)DARING blog Influencier.
People may be mid-flow in a conversation only to face an interruption. Unlike interruption marketing that may occur when email comes through your inbox, spammed chat room comment affects more than one person, it affects up to 30 or 40 at a time. It’s like the knocked off DVD seller who walks into a bar, shouting at everyone to stop what they’re doing, holding up their fake DVDs saying they’re for sale, and expecting others to buy.
No…… I’m not really interested.
It may be tempting to put your emphasis on how you game Empire Avenue spamming your way up to raise your profile. But that is purely based on ego, and how you win the game by getting the highest share price. That’s not the best way to enjoy Empire Avenue- Empire Avenue aggregates your good content on line and gives you the capacity and opportunity to meet people; beautiful amazing people who often have similar interests and outlooks. If you rise purely on spamming and begging, and don’t have the dividends to back it up, you’re going to be going right back down again!
Check out my graph- I had a fast rising price, but hadn’t built the divs properly and when I went on holiday, it took a tumble! Trust me, go for the dividends.
Focusing on share price feels, a little dirty- cheap, short-term, lacking substance. You’d only take a guy who focuses on their dividends back home to meet your mum.
And equally for those who get fed up of spam, lets focus on the positives and not turn Empire Avenue into a place where the Spam Police breathe. There needs to be a level of empathy and understanding. Over the last 5 years, building your number of followers on Twitter has been an individualistic pursuit for people, and so therefore hasn’t caused group offence. It’s been easy to ignore- you just don’t follow Spammers back.
Spare a thought for those who are so used to such a culture. It takes a while to detox from certain behaviour and ways of thinking. It’s therefore understandable why for many, more seems better. And instead of taking on a critical tone, I think it’s about re-educating people as to the benefits of engaging with Empire Avenue in a different way. Otherwise I know as a moderator I could mis-use my position to alienate, embarrass and humiliate people. So here are my Top Fiveteen Reasons why it’s better to engage with people instead of spamming them.
- Leverage is more important than share price, and quality is more important than quantity.
- People love to connect with people who take an interest in them and who aren’t out to ‘use them’ for what they can get out of them (ie share purchases!).
- Good communicators listen before they speak. They spend time getting to understand the thoughts and needs of another. When you spam you lose the opportunity to listen, and for someone else to be heard.
Often when you spam, you are caught into a cycle of valuing the wrong things. You value the immediate- you want success here and now. You long for the results without the effort. It’s like getting someone else to do exam questions online. You may get the result, but you wont get the knowledge, and the result wont really count for anything without the knowledge.
- There are only so many meaningful connections and relationships you can have in life and with people on Empire Avenue. Focus on those you can help and that can help you, and watch the precious value that can come from it.
- When you spam, you attract interaction with Spammers. They’re not interested in you, they don’t care about you, they’ll ditch you when it suits you, and the spammers just use you as you are there to use them. A mutual one night stand may appeal to some, but statistics show time and again, that good faithful relationships bring greater happiness.
People love authentic, genuine people who communicate honestly without a ‘hidden or obvious (buy me)’ agenda. Share your heart and allow people to get to know the beautiful you. You may be surprised by the results.
- The number of followers you have on Twitter, friends you have on Facebook and size of your share price on Empire Avenue is not important in life. How much precious time are you wasting, when you could be getting to know people, and doing something important with your energies? Knowing people is more important than froth, and creating and exploring good ideas is more important than throwing out poor content just to clock up the points.
- Going after easy followers is like chasing after the quick buck. Most people who chase the quick buck, do not both find it and keep it. Find good friends and connections so that when you need them, they know that they are significant to you. Good friends are worth more than gold.
- If you made a commitment to strategically and meaningfully interact and connect with a few dozen people, looking at how you add value to them, then you’re likely to have more fruitful relationships then if you go after spamming hundreds or thousands of people.
- Spammers are boring. They’re like door to door salespeople who don’t have a good product to sell.
- Spamming is a demanding destructive mistress that will never be satisfied and will always demand more from you.
- Who you are online, affects who you are offline. So although you may think spamming is just your social media approach, how you relate to all people permeates and affects your thinking and relationships. If you feel comfortable using people online, you’re more likely to do so offline. Compartmentalising your communication does not come without a cost.
- Those who don’t spam get the girls! Who wants to go out with a robot….?
- Build you’re social media relationships through lots of interaction, engagements and meaningful connection. It may take more time than spamming, wont be quick, but the relationships and interactions established will be so much better as a result.
If you’re a spammer, or you think others may call you that, do not despair. We all learn through our experiences, and often we don’t realise there’s a problem in it until we are shown by others. I’m not a fan of spam, but equally I understand the psychological pull to want to. My reason for writing is not to make you feel crap, but to give you a taste that a world without spam is a lot more exciting. If you get a buzz from getting more followers and investors, imagine the buzz you’d get from developing more advocates, friends and significant connections. That’s where it gets exciting.
What are your thoughts on spam? Were you once a spammer and moved away from the dark side? Do you disagree and think spam in moderation is perfectly fine? Are there additional rules you’d add to the list?
Please let me know your thoughts. As always I’d love to know what you think, and have your wisdom help shape this conversation.
Lots of love, (e)CALEB






















